To get what you want you must know what you want. That is an easier said concept then actually done. One minute you may think you want one thing but change your mind the next minute. Understand that you always always always get what you are asking for in the right time.
The second step in getting what you want is in the action. Are you doing what is needed to get what you want? Regardless of what anyone tells you, work is always required to receive what you want. This work always comes in the form of growth. It may be spiritual work, physical work, and/or mental work needed….but to truly receive what you want you must respect that part of the process. This is one of the most amazing ways to invest in yourself.